If you're trying to get to know this girl, or trying to gain her attention, get attached to her or whatsoever, please take note, there're some things which are no-no's. Meaning to say, we girls actually hate it. I'm actually trying to complete my holiday homeworks which are due tomorrow but something made me have this urge to get this post out, now.
3 THINGS NOT TO DO WHEN YOU WANT TO KNOW/GET A GIRL.
These are based on my own experiences and my friend's.
Any similarities are purely sheer coincidence.
#1. YOU DO NOT BADMOUTH ANYTHING ABOUT HER IN FRONT OF HER FRIENDS OR SIBLINGS.
TIP: If you rly want to bad mouth about her, do it somewhere she'll never ever get to know. In short, DO IT & NEVER GET CAUGHT ABOUT IT.
Wait, you're not even supposed to be badmouthing her in the first place if you're having that kind of "feeling" for her. But anyhow, even if you have any discontent about her, you don't tell her friends, siblings or anybody she may get in contact to. You're just wreaking your own boat on the sea. If you get what I mean. Why would you even think of doing that?
Need an example? Here's two.
(a) *If she's attached* Eeyer, why her taste so bad one?! Got this kind of boyfriend. No taste sia.
(b) Eeyer, why she wearing those kind of ahma clothes one. No taste sia.
Got it?
#2. YOU DO NOT IRRITATE HER (esp when she's in a bad mood)
TIP: If you can't identify if she is in a bad mood or not, CHECK HER TWITTER ACC.
She is already not in the mood, and there you go constantly texting her or talking to her. Even if she's not in a bad mood, SHE WILL BE.
> 3 text in a min (or before a reply) is crazily irritating.
You never know, she might be busy or not in the mood to reply any messages. She'll not run away, just wait patiently for her replies. Even when face-to-face, if you feel something is wrong, do something. Don't wait till she goes up to you and shout "STFU DUDE, YOU'RE ANNOYING!" When that happens, your chances are gone. ^^
#3. NEVER STALK HER. I mean literally.
You know she's coming home at (let's say) 8pm. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.
DO NOT GO UNDER HER BLOCK AND WAIT FOR HER (w/o letting her know).
If she says "Give me some space", you better know your limits and stop following her around like a homeless ghost. NEVER, I mean NEVER go to the corridor of her house and wait for her to leave house if she told you she's going out with her friends, or for tuition.
IT'S NOT ONLY CREEPY, BUT ANNOYING.
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AS FOR THE GUY WHO BAD MOUTHED ABOUT SAYANG,
Keep your comments to yourself. Reflect about yourself. Never try coming forth to talk to me.
RANTS about what I have to say about what you did are on my twitter alr. Enough said.
CIAOS.